Personal Leadership

Lies we believe: We are lied to continually, though it is a sad fact that the vast majority of the lies come from ourselves! More specifically, we are fed a constant stream of lies from our inner “Gremlin” or egoic nature. The lies sound like this; “I’m not good enough”, “I can’t do this”, “I’m […]

Happiness… we all seek it in a myriad of ways, but for some it eludes us like quicksilver. We grasp at things, hoping to achieve happiness or at least contentment, but often joy, euphoria or whatever boost we seek, slips way and we sink back into a very familiar malaise. The problem is, we often […]

 I left the house the other day for my morning run and noticed that there were nearly 100 dandelions that emerged from my lawn, ready to cast their seedlings to the wind.  I stopped and pondered the impact of 10,000 seedlings finding their way across my lawn, to populate another bourgeoning colony of noxious weeds.  […]

Without intention, we drift through life rudderless without power. The current of circumstance, carry us down unintended paths, often leading to stagnant waters or even worse, we drop into the raging rapids of uncertainty. When we operate with intention, we are fully awake and fully engaged in the navigation of our mind and heart.  Energy […]

What we accomplish in life and how we experience life in general is largely impacted by how we see ourselves.  When you look at your face staring back at you from the mirror, what do you see?  Do you see a person steeped in potential, ready to embrace life to the fullest?  Or do you […]

Have you achieved all the outcomes you desire? Are you where you want to be at this stage in your life? If not, why not? There is a pretty good chance, if you have fallen short, the reason is you are self-sabotaging. We all have an inner-critic, some call a “gremlin” that is constantly criticizing, […]

Some people wake up and say “good morning God!” while others say “good god, morning”. I try to declare the former. One way I do this is to imagine during my morning prayer & meditation, God handing me a beautifully wrapped gift as He says to me “here is my gift to you, another day […]

As a coach, I ask a lot of questions.  If fact, powerful questioning is among the core competencies of competent coach.  We ask questions that evoke discovery, insight, commitment or action.  We ask questions to gain greater clarity and to move clients closer toward what they desire. One of my favorite questions is “why?” Why […]